• Marriage Care University Application

  • The Marriage Care University (MCU) exists to provide married couples the opportunity to give a season of time to the deepening and maturing of their marriage relationship. MCU provides couples a multi-week focus that includes the discussion of materials regarding their relationship as well as completing weekly "homework!" By completing and submitting this application you are inferring that you are deeply committed to your marriage and desire to discover how you can become a better spouse. Furthermore, please note that your submission of this application assumes that you have reviewed your schedule and are willing to make a multi-week commitment to this endeavor.

    Lastly, please be aware that there is a limited amount of registrations available for each MCU session. Your submission of this application does not grant you an automatic acceptance into this session of MCU. Once we have received and reviewed this application we will contact you as to your acceptance or postponement to a later session of MCU.

    • General Information 
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    • Please write in the name of the MCU course you would like to attend

    • Was either person married before?

    • Relationship History 

    • Please place a mark on the line below that represents the current state of your marriage. (1=Rocky, 2=Bumpy, 3=Okay, 4=Good, 5=Fantastic)

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    • Assessment Information 

    • Current Level of Satisfaction…
      Both partners need to respond to each of the following questions. The husband should complete the section entitled, "Husband’s Response" and the wife should complete the section entitled, “Wife’s Response.”

    • Our daily personal involvement with each other

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    • My trust in my partner

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    • My partner’s trust in me

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    • The depth of our communication together

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    • How well I believe my spouse hears my heart when I
      share my feelings

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    • How we divide chores

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    • The way we make decisions

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    • How we manage conflict

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    • Adjustment to one another’s differences

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    • Amount of free time spent together

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    • Quality of free time spent together

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    • Amount of free time spent apart

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    • Our interaction with friends as a couple

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    • The way we support each other in rough times

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    • How we support each other’s careers

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    • Our affectionate, romantic interaction

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    • Our sexual relationship

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    • The frequency of our sexual contact

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    • Our spiritual interaction

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    • Our church involvement

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    • The level of our financial security

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    • How we manage money

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    • My partner’s relationship with my relatives

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    • My relationship with my partner’s relatives

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    • Scoring Key:
      To determine your score, add the numbers you marked for each statement. Then enter your score in the appropriate box below. The total sum of your responses represents your personal score. Your partner should tally his/her score similarly to yours.

      192 - 240 Your relationship is doing very well.
      144 - 191 Your relationship has some major strengths.
      121 - 143 You have strengths and weaknesses.
      Any satisfaction under 6 could benefit from some work.
      73 - 120 Definite improvement is needed.
      72 or less Major assistance is needed.

    • Thank you for taking the time to complete this registration. Your responses will help the Marriage Care University team to prepare for each session.

      The Marriage Care University is being offered to those couples who want to spend several weeks working on themselves and their marriage. By attending MCU you are expressing you love your spouse enough to work on your attitudes and behaviors. Each week you will be asked and expected to complete all of the homework assignments. You will be asked to share your homework experiences with others in your small group. The MCU experience is designed for couples to see real change in how they do life together as a couple. Each week you will receive very practical tools that you can employ in your marriage. Each week you will be challenged to leave behind lazy and unyielding behaviors while challenged to employ intentional and life-giving behaviors. At the end of the course we believe you will see measurable differences in your marriage. More importantly you will have received a significant amount of information and encouragement that you can employ over the life of your marriage. You should not attend MCU if you are not able to commit to the schedule, the completion of the homework exercises, and the personal effort required. If you are accepted into this current session of MCU you will be notified of your acceptance and the cost of your materials for the course you selected. For couples needing child care we will offer KidCare for a flat fee of $5 per night per family.

      Lastly, please remember your acceptance into the Marriage Care University is by appointment. If you are approved to attend this session then the Marriage Care ministry team will notify you that your application has been accepted.

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