Accountability Guide

Accountability Discussion and Reflection Guide

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The following is a personal assessment designed to help you develop a life of godly humility, purity, and integrity. To the best of your ability, fill out this assessment before speaking with your Accountability Partner or Group, and then use this as a template for conversation.

You will receive a copy of this assessment via email upon submission. You may also choose to provide an accountability partner's email address to receive this as well. You may complete this assessment as often as you would like to for accountability discussion and personal reflection.
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1 = HELP! // 5 = STABLE // I have avoided looking at pornography or other sexually provocative images online or offline.

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I have avoided images, interactions, or stories online I knew could be seductive or titillating (but wouldn’t necessarily be considered “pornographic”).

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I have kept my eyes from second glances and kept my mind from entertaining thoughts about someone (other than my spouse).

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I have actively avoided known triggers of sexual temptation or titillation.

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I am successfully fighting the desire to be noticed by or to attract the attention of other men or women (other than my spouse).

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I have not spent time with a man or woman in a way that could be viewed as compromising to my purity (or my faithfulness to my spouse).

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I am intentional about showing love to others by the way I serve them with my gifts/talents.

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I have been intentional about spending appropriate time with my family/household.

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My family/household is enjoying joy and harmony.

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My time with technology or media has not displaced time with God, family, friends, work, or my neighbors.

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I have spoken to and about others with edifying words, not with words that damaged them or their reputation.

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I pray about my financial expenditures, and I am intentionally generous with others. People can tell from my financial expenditures that God is my greatest treasure.

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I am intentional about the use of my spare time to pursue wholesome activities.

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I pray about my financial expenditures, and I am intentionally generous with others. People can tell from my financial expenditures that God is my greatest treasure.

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I am intentional about the use of my spare time to pursue wholesome activities.

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I am intentional about my diet, exercise, and sleep habits.

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I am not creating the impression that I am better than I am. I do not exaggerate or make much of myself.

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I am feeling energized for the week ahead.

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I am resting completely in what Christ has done for me—not obsessing about my own failures nor putting stock in my own performance.

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Regularly focusing on gospel gives me great joy that overcomes life’s disappointments.

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When I hear disappointing news, I do not complain or live in doubt or fear, but instead I am inspired to pray and trust in God’s care and providence.

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I am enjoying prayer, and I am praying for others and myself with consistency.

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The Bible is consistently shaping the way I think and live. I spend regular time reading or hearing God’s words, and as a result of that time, I have determined to better trust and obey God in specific ways.

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Though Christ is the one I want to put at the center of my life, there are specific people, experiences, or objects that I am tempted to make a chief source of my significance, satisfaction, and fulfillment. (Check all that apply.)

Sexual PleasureFinancial SecuritySpouseFuture SpouseGirlfriend/BoyfriendParentHobbyCareerMy ImageFriendHealthComfortOpinions of Others
I am currently fighting these dispositions in my heart. (Check all that apply.)

PrideResentmentSelf-pityUnforgivenessBitternessCovetousnessCriticalSpiritDeceptivenessDiscontentmentDoubtGrumblingIngratitudeWorryIrritabilityJealousyPreoccupation with the Opinions of Others
What am I doing about these dispositions of the heart? (mentioned on above)
What on my Internet Accountability Report should draw my Partner’s attention?
What do I hope none of my Accountability Partners ask me about?
When it comes to my habitual sins, is there a time of day, a place, a person, or a mood that tends to open the door to more tempting situations?
What good habit do I believe God wants to form in my life? Have I taken specific steps to develop that habit?
What am I praying for? Have I received any specific answers to my prayers?
How can my Accountability Partner(s) pray for me?
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Accountability Discussion and Reflection Guide